Painting is hard. Don’t make it harder by reciting negative mantras.
No one starts out hating art
When we first started painting, we were full of wonder. Swirling paint, mixing colors and creating storylines was enchanting. We made all the things we loved: trees, rainbows and smiling people holding hands.
Then we look around and spy some one doing it better. That’s all it takes to cast doubt and our creative spark wobbles.
The truth is that the amazingly gifted kid, simply put pink flowers in the foreground of a dark painting.
All of this happens in grade school! So when your seven year old shows you the painting he made, he worked on it just as hard as you did at your job that day. Take a moment and say something intelligent. Ask him why he chose that color or ask him to tell you the story of his painting. Listen and learn.
We are all learning so be nice to yourself, celebrate your victories. Getting your gear together is a victory. Organizing the studio is a victory. Get into the habit of complimenting yourself, your friends, the mail carrier, a waitress because we all need a little happiness to continue. That way, when someone compliments your work you won’t be thrown off balance. Say thank you and how much you appreciate the compliment. Anything but, do you really think so? I messed up the water and the trees are all leaning to the left.
Wow, that wasn’t what anyone expected to hear. I whoop or hop, sometimes I do a little dance. Sure it looks mad but I am experiencing joy, so why not?
People have come up to me and asked me who I am talking to? This usually happens when I am working out a tricky bit. I laugh and tell them what I am actually doing.
Look, people don’t know how to talk to artists and their only references are from sitcoms and their friends that paint to relax.
I tell them. I am trying to pick out a color for the shady side of the rocks that is a bit surprising and fun.
Now back to my dance off with the cat.
Stay positive and paint happy